15 REASONS YOU SHOULD STOP BEING “TOO NICE”
1. PEOPLE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU WHEN THEY KNOW YOU WON’T SAY NO.
2. YOU ATTRACT TAKERS WHO ONLY REMEMBER YOU WHEN THEY NEED SOMETHING.
3. YOUR KINDNESS STARTS LOOKING LIKE WEAKNESS TO THE WRONG PEOPLE.
4. YOU BECOME EVERYONE’S DUMPING GROUND FOR PROBLEMS.
5. YOUR TIME AND ENERGY GET DISRESPECTED BECAUSE YOU OVER-GIVE.
6. PEOPLE PUSH YOUR LIMITS BECAUSE YOU NEVER PUSH BACK.
7. YOU LET OTHERS CONTROL YOUR DECISIONS WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING IT.
8. YOU LOSE CONFIDENCE EVERY TIME YOU PLEASE PEOPLE INSTEAD OF YOURSELF.
9. YOUR GENEROSITY GETS TAKEN FOR GRANTED INSTEAD OF APPRECIATED.
10. YOU END UP INVISIBLE IN ROOMS WHERE YOU SHOULD BE RESPECTED.
11. YOUR SILENCE MAKES OTHERS THINK YOU’RE OKAY WITH BEING DISRESPECTED.
12. YOU ATTRACT BROKEN PEOPLE WHO WANT COMFORT, NOT CHANGE.
13. YOU LET OTHERS USE YOU TO ACHIEVE THEIR GOALS WHILE YOURS SLEEP.
14. YOU CREATE UNNECESSARY ENEMIES BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE RESENT KINDNESS.
15. YOU MISS OPPORTUNITIES BECAUSE YOU’RE TOO HUMBLE TO STEP FORWARD.
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