5 SIGNS YOU’RE THE ONE INVESTING, BUT THEY’RE THE ONE ENJOYING THE RELATIONSHIP
Some of you are in relationships where you’re the foundation, but they’re the ones building their future on your effort… and they won’t even say thank you.
1. You’re always the one planning, solving, sacrificing — they just show up.
A relationship shouldn’t feel like a one-man project.
Solution:
Stop overgiving. Match their energy. Give as you receive.
2. Their growth is your priority, but your growth is their last concern.
They celebrate themselves, but forget you.
Solution:
Start prioritizing yourself too. Don’t pour into someone who won’t pour back.
3. When there’s a financial or emotional need, they run to you — but when it’s your turn, they disappear.
People like this only love what you give, not who you are.
Solution:
Set boundaries immediately. Stop rescuing someone who leaves you drowning.
4. You’re loyal; they’re available only when they need something.
Loyalty without reciprocation leads to resentment.
Solution:
Pull back. If they notice, good. If they don’t, even better — walk away.
5. You’re carrying the relationship; they’re carrying excuses.
A relationship with one engine must crash.
Solution:
Have a hard conversation. If nothing changes, don’t die there.
If you’re tired of being the only one trying, drop a “ENOUGH!” in the comments.
Share this with someone who needs the wakeup call.
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