6 SIGNS YOU’RE THE OPTION THEY RUN TO WHEN THEIR REAL CHOICE FAILS THEM
Some of you think you’re “important” in someone’s life…
No. You’re just the backup generator they use when the main power fails.
1. They disappear when things are good with someone else, but return when things go bad.
You’re not a priority — you’re a plan B.
Solution:
Don’t entertain people who only remember you when forgotten elsewhere.
2. They rarely initiate conversations, but reply fast when they need comfort.
You’re their emotional recharge.
Solution:
Pull back. Let them look for someone else to dump their storms on.
3. They flirt with you but never define the relationship.
They want your body and your attention, not your heart.
Solution:
Demand clarity or detach completely.
4. They get close only when their real love interest is ignoring them.
You’re their rebound in real-time.
Solution:
Know your value. Stop accepting borrowed affection.
5. You give, they take — but they always give the best part of themselves elsewhere.
You get the scraps.
Solution:
Walk away with your dignity intact.
6. They post others proudly but hide you like bad news.
Love isn’t ashamed to be seen.
Solution:
If someone won’t claim you, don’t claim them either.
If you’ve ever been used as an “option,” comment “I DESERVE BETTER.”
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