7 SIGNS YOU’RE THE ONE ALWAYS POURING INTO PEOPLE WHO NEVER POUR BACK AND HOW IT’S QUIETLY DESTROYING YOU
“Not everyone who smiles at you is grateful for you. Some are only comfortable because you never demand anything back.”
1. You check on people nobody checks on you
You remember their birthdays. You notice their silence. You show up when they’re drowning.
But when you need someone? Your phone becomes a graveyard.
Fix: Pull back emotionally. Only invest in people who reciprocate effort, not just need.
2. You're everyone’s emergency contact but nobody’s priority
They love you when they need you , not when you need them.
Fix: Start saying “I can’t help right now.” Boundaries teach people to value you.
3. You apologize for asking for the bare minimum
You feel guilty for wanting the same energy you give.
Fix: Stand firm. The right people won’t shame you for having needs.
4. You attract takers because you over-give
People can smell a giver who lacks boundaries.
Fix: Give, but don’t bleed. Protect your emotional wallet.
5. You’re mentally drained but pretend you’re fine
Pretending you’re okay is the fastest way to break yourself.
Fix: Rest. Be honest with yourself. You matter too.
6. You feel used but blame yourself
You think being needed equals being loved , it doesn’t.
Fix: Choose people who choose you without being begged.
7. You’re slowly becoming numb
When you give too much, you lose your sense of self.
Fix: Pull back. Rebuild your identity. Love yourself loudly.
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