“THE HARSH TRUTH: MOST PEOPLE ARE DATING SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T EVEN LIKE THEM”
You know what’s crazy?
Some of you are fighting for people who don’t even flinch at the thought of losing you.
You’re loyal to someone who only loves the benefits, not you.
- If they liked you, you wouldn’t be begging.
- If they liked you, you wouldn’t be competing.
- If they liked you, attention wouldn’t feel like a monthly salary — paid once in a while.
Here’s the real pain:
Some of you are in relationships where your partner would replace you in 3 days…
But you’d need 3 YEARS to recover if they walked away today.
- Stop dating people who tolerate you.
- Stop staying where effort feels one-sided.
- Stop calling it “love” when it’s really “being afraid to start over.”
SOLUTIONS
- Detach slowly: Reduce calls/texts and reclaim your emotional balance.
- Raise your standards: What you allow is what will continue.
- Match energy: If they’re cold, don’t overheat yourself trying to create warmth.
- Walk away early: Leaving now hurts. Staying longer destroys you.
If this hit your chest, it’s because it’s your truth.
Fix your heart before it fixes you with regret.
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