10 Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend
1. Never, I repeat, never, try to get her jealous of your other female friends!
I read this beautiful quote somewhere, that a ‘Real man doesn't love a hundred women, he only loves his woman in a hundred ways'! Let her know she's special, and that she doesn't have to be insecure about her spot in your life!
2. Never tell her that you would take a bullet for her, unless you actually would:
Never tell her you are too serious, you are actually giving her a dream. She may plan a whole lifetime, with your picture in her head, while you are just trying to show that you like her.
3. Never lie!
It's a big nooo! Women, when they need to know something about someone significant, can work more efficiently than the most sophisticated detective agencies in the world! So lying on
‘where have you been?’ ‘with?’ ‘who the f*ck is she?’ ‘what kind of life-threatening emergency gave you the right to ignore my calls?’
will do no good!
4. Never tell her, or let her feel, in any way, that she needs you in any other way, other than for love:
Never make a woman feel she needs you for anything other than love. In modern relationships, a self-sufficient woman will recognize such tactics. If you treat her as a liability or try to make her dependent, a strong woman will likely push you away and prove she can thrive on her own.
Appreciate her not just for her beauty, but for fighting a hundred battles within herself and with the world, every single day.
Above all, never let her question her self-worth. The day she truly realizes it is the day she'll know she deserves better.
5. Never admit to your girlfriend that you cheated on her.
Seriously, why would you tell me something like that? Isn’t it bad enough already?
If it was just a one-time thing that I would never find out and the other girl cannot even find you, then … there’s nothing to tell. It will just piss me off and I’ll break up with you
and our beautiful children will never be born. Just because you cannot keep your mouth shut.
If it’s more than one-time thing and you want to leave me, then just leave me already. I’ll manage.
If it’s more than one-time thing but you’re not planning on leaving me, I’ll find out myself sooner or later. At least give me that satisfaction.. 🕵️♀️
The worst thing though is when you come to me and say - “Honey..I cannot keep it anymore, it’s killing me from the inside. I cheated on you”. Seriously! Just because you don’t have the mental power to handle the consequences of your own mistake, you also need to share the burden with me? Can it get any more egoistic than that? As if you didn’t betray me enough already, now you also have to make me feel bad?
6. Insults Disguised as “Honesty”
Never: Use absolute statements like, "You're so lazy," or, "You have no common sense."
Because this attacks their character and self-worth, destroying the emotional safety required for a healthy relationship.
instead frame the issue using specific, non-judgmental observations and a clear request. For example: "When X happens, I feel Y. Can we try Z instead?"
7. Insulting Her Family or Friends:
Never say “Your family is toxic and I hate them.” It forces her to choose sides and creates tension she can never win. You should say “Some behaviors make me uncomfortable—can we talk about boundaries?” instead.
8. Sexual Shaming:
Never say “That was the worst sex ever” or compare her to past partners. It makes her feel inadequate, unattractive, and deeply embarrassed.
You should say “I’d love if we tried ___ together” instead.
9. Public Financial Blame:
Never say “You’re the reason we’re broke” in front of others. It embarrasses her and damages trust. You should discuss money privately and create a plan together instead.
10. Threatening to Expose Her Secrets
Never say “I’ll tell people about X if you leave.” It scares her, breaks emotional safety, and crosses into abuse. You should set healthy boundaries or seek help if things escalate instead.
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