7 ADDICTIONS KEEPING WOMEN BROKE, INSECURE & STAGNANT, BUT THEY STILL CALL IT “NORMAL LIFE.”
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1. THE ADDICTION TO IMPRESSING PEOPLE WHO DON’T EVEN LIKE YOU
You buy hair, clothes, perfumes, bag, nails…
But you don’t have ₦100k emergency savings.
Brutal truth: You’re decorating a life that’s collapsing.
Solution: For 30 days, buy NOTHING that doesn’t make you money.
2. THE ADDICTION TO BEING CHOSEN INSTEAD OF CHOOSING YOURSELF
You keep dating men who drain your peace, your money, your confidence.
Brutal truth: Love is not the reason you’re stuck — lack of self-worth is.
Solution: Build one income skill. Build one boundary. Build one standard.
3. THE ADDICTION TO SOCIAL MEDIA FANTASY
Scrolling 7 hours a day but crying “I don’t have time.”
Brutal truth: You’re not busy — you’re distracted.
Solution: Replace 1 hour scrolling with 1 hour skill learning.
Do this for 90 days and watch how your life changes.
4. THE ADDICTION TO WAITING FOR MIRACLES INSTEAD OF MAKING MOVES
Prayers without plans = Delusion.
Brutal truth: Heaven helps those who actually stand up from the bed.
Solution: Write a 6-month plan. Break it into weekly steps. EXECUTE.
5. THE ADDICTION TO DEAD FRIENDSHIPS
You keep circle of gossipers, complainers, “soft life” merchants…
Brutal truth: Your network is your future. And your future is not looking bright.
Solution: Add 3 new women to your life who talk money, skills, growth.
6. THE ADDICTION TO LIVING LIKE THERE’S NO TOMORROW
Every money that enters your hand goes to enjoyment.
Brutal truth: Enjoyment without discipline is poverty in disguise.
Solution: Save 10%, invest 10%, and spend with sense.
7. THE ADDICTION TO HIDING PAIN WITH BEAUTY
Pretty on the outside. Broken, confused, and lost inside.
Brutal truth: If you don’t heal your mind, you’ll sabotage every blessing.
Solution: Therapy, journaling, solitude, prayer — pick one and start.
THE REALITY?
Most women are not suffering from “bad luck.”
They’re suffering from addictions that look normal but are destroying their future quietly.
Fix the habits → Fix the life.
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