5 SIGNS HE’S ONLY AFTER YOUR BODY BUT WILL NEVER MARRY YOU — AND HOW TO FIX EACH POINT
Let’s be brutally honest…
Some of you are praying for a future with a man who doesn’t even see you in his next weekend.
Here are 5 clear signs he’s only after your body and the solutions you MUST apply before you waste your destiny on someone who never planned to stay:
1. HE ONLY CALLS YOU WHEN HE’S HORNY, BORED, OR LONELY
If his emotions don’t move until his private part wakes up, sis… he’s not your future, he’s your appointment.
Fix it:
Stop being available on demand.
Reduce instant replies.
Set boundaries immediately.
Make him talk to you during normal hours like a human being, not a midnight service provider.
2. HE NEVER TALKS ABOUT THE FUTURE — ONLY ABOUT “COMING OVER”
A man who wants you long-term will talk about plans, goals, family, and growth.
A man who wants your body will talk about “so what are you doing tonight?”
Fix it:
Stop entertaining shallow conversations.
Redirect talks to purpose, goals, values.
If he becomes irritated, congratulations — you’ve just exposed his real intention.
3. HE HIDES YOU LIKE A CRIME SCENE
If after months, nobody in his life knows you exist…
Just know you’re not “his woman.”
You’re his private entertainment.
Fix it:
Ask direct questions:
“What are we?”
“Where is this going?”
“Why am I a secret?”
Watch his reaction — excuses reveal the truth faster than DNA tests.
4. HE ONLY COMPLIMENTS YOUR BODY, NEVER YOUR MIND, CHARACTER, OR AMBITION
If all his compliments rotate around your hips, breasts, waistline, and “how you look in that dress”…
Sis, he’s not in love.
He’s in heat.
Fix it:
Start showing your depth.
Talk about your dreams.
Show your purpose.
If he gets bored when the conversation is no longer sexual, he’s not your man — he’s your consumer.
5. HE TREATS YOU LIKE A TEMPORARY OPTION BUT EXPECTS PERMANENT ACCESS TO YOUR BODY
Inconsistency. Mixed signals. Hot today, cold tomorrow.
But always warm enough to sleep with you.
That’s not love.
That’s convenience.
Fix it:
Pull back emotionally and physically.
Tell him access to your body requires clarity, consistency, and commitment.
If he disappears — GOOD.
That exit saved you 5 years of heartbreak.
FINAL TRUTH
A man who values you will protect you, choose you, and plan with you.
A man who only wants your body will drain you, confuse you, and disappear.
Know the difference before you invest your soul where only your skin is being appreciated.
If this message shook you, it wasn’t by accident.
Work on yourself, raise your standards, and choose men who choose you back.
Follow for more brutal truths that will upgrade your life.
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