“STOP CALLING IT LOVE — IT’S ATTACHMENT, FEAR & LONELINESS DISGUISED AS AFFECTION”
- Some of you are not in love.
- You’re just afraid of being alone.
- You’re not attached to them —
- You’re attached to how they make you feel about yourself.
- That’s why you stay with someone who drains you.
- That’s why you defend someone who disrespects you.
- That’s why you keep returning to a situation you should’ve escaped months ago.
- It’s not love.
- It’s emotional addiction.
- It’s fear of starting over.
- It’s loneliness wearing the mask of affection.
SOLUTIONS
- Build your self-esteem: The higher your value, the less nonsense you tolerate.
- Create a life outside the relationship: Hobbies, friends, goals.
- Detach from the fantasy: Love the facts, not the potential.
- Heal your abandonment wounds: The stronger you become, the less you cling.
- Stop confusing pain with passion.
Fix yourself so you can choose people who actually feel like peace.
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