HOW TO STOP BEING EVERYONE’S OPTION WHEN YOU DESERVE TO BE A PRIORITY
- People don’t lose you because you are hard to love…
- They lose you because they thought you’d always be there,
- until you finally got tired of being treated like a backup plan.
Let’s be honest:
- Most people only remember you when they need something.
- They call you when they’re bored.
- They value you only when you’re useful.
- And you? You’re the one always showing up, always giving, always proving your worth.
Here’s the brutal truth:
You trained people to treat you like an option by tolerating it.
So here’s how to stop:
🔥 1. Say “No” even when you feel guilty.
If you can’t say no, people will never take your “yes” seriously.
🔥 2. Stop overexplaining yourself.
The more you explain, the less they respect you.
🔥 3. Match their energy , don’t exceed it.
If they give 20%, stop giving 120%.
🔥 4. Give access based on effort, not emotions.
If they want you, let them show it. Not speak it.
🔥 5. Disappear when you’re not valued.
Silence is the loudest lesson you can teach someone.
- When you finally stop begging for attention,
- they’ll suddenly “realize your value.”
- But by then?
- It will be too late, you’ll already be gone.
Stop being available to people who aren’t available for you.
Start choosing yourself.
If this hit you hard, share it with someone who needs this reality check today.
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