NEVER DATE A MAN WHO HASN’T HEALED FROM THESE 5 WOUNDS
Let’s be brutally honest…
Love is beautiful, but dating an unhealed man will drain you, age you, confuse you, and break you in ways you may never recover from.
A man who hasn’t faced his wounds will bleed all over you , even if you didn’t cut him.
Here are 5 wounds you must never ignore 👇...
1. THE WOUND OF INSECURITY
A man who doesn’t feel enough will try to control everything:
your dressing, your friends, your dreams, your progress.
He’s not protecting you , he’s protecting himself from his own fear.
Truth:
No amount of love can fix a man who feels threatened by your confidence.
2. THE WOUND OF FAILURE
Some men are still angry at themselves for who they didn’t become.
If he hasn’t healed from failure, he will:
- compete with you,
- resent your success,
- and sabotage anything good he touches.
Truth:
A man who hasn’t forgiven his past cannot build a future with you.
3. THE WOUND OF CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
If he grew up around violence, abandonment, insults, or emotional starvation , and never healed, he will repeat the same patterns.
Not because he wants to…
But because pain becomes “normal” when it’s all you’ve ever known.
Truth:
Love cannot cure trauma. Healing does.
4. THE WOUND OF HEARTBREAK
If his heart is still with someone else, yours will suffer for it.
He will compare you.
He will project past hurt on you.
He will punish you for sins you didn’t commit.
Truth:
Never date a man using you to recover from another woman.
5. THE WOUND OF IDENTITY CONFUSION
If he doesn’t know who he is, he will not know how to treat you.
He will shift with pressure.
He will change with environment.
He will love you today and confuse you tomorrow.
Truth:
A man without identity becomes a man without stability.
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- Let’s grow wiser, stronger, and more intentional together.
God bless you.
- If this message meets you today, take it as your sign.
- Don’t leave your heart to chance.
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