NEVER MARRY A MAN UNTIL HE PASSES THESE 5 TESTS
- A man is not defined by height, handsomeness, sweet words, or “baby I miss you.”
- A man is defined by discipline, vision, character, and how he behaves when no one is watching.
- Before you say “yes,” make sure you’re not saying “God help me.”
These 5 tests will save you from crying inside a marriage that was supposed to bless you.
1. The Self-Control Test
A man who cannot control his anger, his lust, his mouth, or his impulses will destroy your peace.
Marriage multiplies every weakness — small problems become big disasters.
Red Flag: He shouts, threatens, cheats, or acts violently when upset.
Solution: Observe how he handles stress, disagreements, and temptations before marriage.
2. The Responsibility Test
Love without responsibility is useless.
If he cannot take care of himself, he cannot take care of you.
Many women marry “projects,” then complain when they become “single mothers inside marriage.”
Red Flag: He’s always broke, always borrowing, always depending on you or others.
Solution: Check if he has a stable job, skill, or income — and how he manages it.
3. The Vision & Ambition Test
A man with no direction will lead you in circles.
If his dream starts and ends with enjoyment, vibes, and social media, he will waste your life.
Red Flag: He has been “planning something” for 3 years but has done nothing.
Solution: Ask him about his five-year plans and see if he’s taking real steps toward them.
4. The Respect & Character Test
A man’s true character shows in how he treats you when he’s not getting his way.
If he belittles you during arguments, that disrespect will grow after marriage.
Red Flag: He insults you, mocks your dreams, or makes you feel small.
Solution: Pay attention to his tone, his reactions, and how he speaks about other women.
5. The Leadership & Stability Test
Marriage needs leadership — not dictatorship.
A real man provides direction, protects your emotions, and creates stability.
Not chaos. Not confusion.
Red Flag: He is inconsistent, unpredictable, emotionally unstable, or spiritually empty.
Solution: Check if he makes sound decisions, keeps his word, and stands firm under pressure.
FINAL WORD
A wrong man can bury your joy, your confidence, your destiny.
A right man will water your growth, your peace, and your future.
- Don’t marry potential — marry patterns.
- Don’t marry promises — marry proof.
Choose with wisdom, not loneliness.
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| NEVER MARRY A MAN UNTIL HE PASSES THESE 5 TESTS |