NEVER MARRY A WOMAN UNTIL SHE PASSES THESE 5 TESTS
- Marriage is not about beauty, vibes, or “God when.”
- It is about character, mindset, and the future you’re building.
- Before you say “I do,” make sure you’re not saying “I’m finished.”
These 5 tests will save you from entering a marriage that feels like a lifetime punishment.
1. The Character Test
Don’t marry a woman just because she is beautiful; marry her because she is consistent, respectful, humble, and emotionally stable.
Beauty disappears. Character stays — and it can make your life peaceful or miserable.
Red Flag: She is polite in public but rude in private.
Solution: Watch how she treats people who can’t benefit her — waiters, cleaners, strangers.
2. The Loyalty Test
A loyal woman is not loyal because you’re rich — she’s loyal because it’s her nature.
Before marriage, check if she can stand with you when you’re at your lowest.
Red Flag: She disappears when you’re broke or struggling.
Solution: Pay attention to how she behaves when you don’t have money to offer.
3. The Peace Test
Peace is not “quietness.”
Peace is a woman who knows how to manage disagreements without turning it into a war.
If every small issue becomes shouting, insult, or emotional manipulation, marriage will be hell.
Red Flag: She turns every conversation into drama.
Solution: Have difficult conversations and observe her maturity level.
4. The Purpose & Ambition Test
A woman with no direction will drag you down.
Marriage is partnership — if she has nothing she’s working on, you’ll carry the whole load alone.
Red Flag: She only cares about enjoyment, lifestyle, and social media validation.
Solution: Ask her about her goals; see if she has dreams or everything is “I don’t know yet.”
5. The Family & Value System Test
You’re not just marrying her — you’re marrying her mindset, upbringing, and belief system.
If her values don’t align with yours, the marriage will constantly clash.
Red Flag: She prioritizes outsiders over her own future home.
Solution: Observe her relationship with her family, her values, and her long-term perspective.
FINAL WORD
- Marriage is not an achievement — it’s an assignment.
- A wrong partner can destroy your destiny faster than poverty.
- A right woman will multiply your peace, progress, and purpose.
Choose with wisdom… not with loneliness.
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| NEVER MARRY A WOMAN UNTIL SHE PASSES THESE 5 TESTS |